If you also say “Since I've had people working for me, I work more than I did alone,” you're not alone in that.

Where you are now

Could it be that you're looking for a trait, when what's missing is an action? Most of what gets written about leadership talks about charisma, vision and instinct. And a trait is not something you can do on Monday morning.

And it costs you. Almost every business owner gives orders. Far fewer go back and check, because checking feels like a lack of trust.

And a manager who doesn't know what the job involves ends up run by whatever lands on him, and “begins to create unreal orders and situations.”

Axel Jedlitschka

Who's talking to you: Axel Jedlitschka

I was asked what I'm most proud of. My answer: my decisions. The decision to take myself in hand, and to be the one who shapes my own future.

So I'm against letting the job run me. A manager who doesn't know what the job involves ends up shaped by it, instead of shaping it. Leadership isn't a trait you either have or don't. It's two actions.

Axel Jedlitschka

What to demand

  • What it is, and isn't

    Know what leadership is, and what it is not.

  • Organization or collection

    Tell an organization apart from a collection of people who happen to work in the same place.

  • Instead of harshness

    Know what to ask for instead of harshness, and when an order that gets enforced is still the wrong order.

  • Four ways to fail

    Know the four ways managers fail, and see that it is a lack of knowledge, not a lack of character.

  • The two jobs

    Know the only two things your job includes, and why doing the work yourself is a mistake, not just tiredness.

There is a way

The booklet is built on a source that says it plainly: “Leadership is one of the most misunderstood subjects in man's dictionary. But it is based almost solely on the ability to give and enforce orders.” An action can be learned; a trait cannot. “Most of this mystique is nonsense.” And a taut ship is not a harshly led one: the source's word for what it needs is positiveness, an order that leaves no doubt about what is needed and by when.

  1. The two categories.Log a full week, hour by hour, and mark next to each line: policy and planning, getting people to work, or something else. The something else is the work you're doing in someone else's place.
  2. Three tests.Before every order: can it be carried out? Is it necessary? Does it match what already works?
  3. The second half.Note three orders you gave in the last week, and mark next to each one when you checked on it.
  4. What we stopped doing.Pick one thing that was decided and never closed out, and bring it back to life. Launch nothing new until it has been running for a month.

Without orders there is no organization, only a collection of individuals, and it stays both small and unhappy. A taut ship is not a harsh one. It is a clear one.

The way, in one booklet

Leadership in Practice · a booklet by Axel Jedlitschka

A definition you can actually work from, four ways to spot yourself failing, and two jobs that define the role.

  • Every quote in the booklet is anchored to a line in the source: 110 anchors, checked in the original Hebrew edition
  • The material was gathered from nineteen separate source documents, not from a single source
  • Anchors that had drifted from the correct line were found and corrected before delivery, in the original Hebrew edition
  • 10 chapters, from what leadership really is to morale
  • Three tests an order must pass before it goes out
  • The four ways to fail as a manager
  • The two jobs the role includes
  • Practice and application, with five exercises
  • A self-check at the end of every chapter
  • A glossary and a summary in ten lines
The cover of the booklet: Leadership in Practice. You became a manager the day you hired your first employee

The comparison

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Leadership in Practice

What it rests on
Giving orders and enforcing them
What you do on Monday
Log a week, and mark which part of it is the two jobs
When something wasn't done
Go back and check, because that is the second half of the job

Leadership as a trait

What it rests on
Charisma, vision, instinct
What you do on Monday
Nothing to do: a trait is not something you do
When something wasn't done
No check, because it feels like a lack of trust

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60 pages, 10 chapters, the four ways to fail, and five exercises

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I'm not the managing type.

An action can be learned; a trait cannot. Someone who decides they are “not a natural leader” stays exactly where they are. Someone who sees that they don't give clear orders and don't check they were carried out knows what to do tomorrow morning.

Isn't checking on them a lack of trust?

Making sure an order was carried out is the second half of the job. It falls away first, precisely because checking feels like a lack of trust.

Where can I get help?

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