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Selling in the Meeting
- When you influence
- Throughout the meeting, in what you found out
- Who talks
- They do. You lead them with a question, and then you are quiet
- How you ask
- A choice between options, instead of asking whether they want it
If you explained everything to them and they still said “let me think about it”, you're not alone.
Where you are now
Could the explaining itself have been the problem? Whoever knows their product well knows how to explain it well, and the explaining feels like work. It is not work. It is what happens instead of it.
And it costs you the meeting. Asking for a decision from a person who does not yet understand loads them down, and the human response to that load is deferral: “let me think about it”.
As long as the meeting rests on what you said, and not on what you found out, a better argument, a discount or a small push at the end will not change that moment. For me too, the biggest difficulty in going out on my own was changing my perception: that I would get by even if I had to sell my service alone.

Who's talking to you: Axel Jedlitschka
From January 2022 to October 2023 I ran sales meetings and service meetings. I sat across from business owners, and I learned to sell in the meeting itself.
In the same job I started building systems and automations for business owners, and I learned to solve technology problems in businesses. I'm against a meeting where you sell before you know what the person needs, because “you cannot go on the assumption that you know what the public needs and wants.”
Axel Jedlitschka
What to demand
Test whether what you found is really what is bringing them down, before you build a proposal on it.
Understand why your explanation is usually what kills the sale, and what you do instead.
Know which kind of question to take out of your vocabulary, and what to replace it with.
Tell a real objection from an excuse, and know what to do with each.
Know when to ask, how to word the asking, and what not to say.
There is a way
A better argument, a discount or a small push all try to influence the moment of decision at the end of the meeting. But that moment was settled long before you got to it, and what settles it is not what you said, but what you found out. There is no script and no set words. There are four things to achieve, in a fixed order, and the wording stays yours.
As the meeting draws near, the client wraps themselves in a brick overcoat. The bricks are bricks of fear, and the fears have to dissolve, not be beaten in an argument.
The way, in one booklet
Selling in the Meeting · a booklet by Axel Jedlitschka
A whole meeting, from the moment you booked it to the signature.

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If you recognise yourself in the sentence “I explained everything to them and they still did not buy”, Chapter 6 is for you, and it explains why the explaining was the problem. You can start there.
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There is no script and no set words. There is an order of four steps, and the wording stays yours, so you don't have to be a different person in the meeting.
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What now
You can keep explaining everything and hear “let me think about it”, or you can ask in the fifth minute what most needs changing for them, and then be quiet.
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